- Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people (Eleanore Roosevelt)
- Much learning does not teach understanding (Heraclitus, 540 BC – 480 BC)
- The beginning of knowledge is the discovery of something we do not understand. (Frank Herbert, 1920 – 1986)
- Victory belongs to those who want it the most and stay in it the longest. (Sharif Khan)
- In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing. (attributed to Theodore Roosevelt)
- Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude. (William James)
- Some things are too important not to share. (Bottom line of a commercial by a major European manufacturer of luxury automobiles after a certain safety innovation, not patented for altruistic reasons. I wish, more companies would follow instead of suing each other about patents …)
- Vision without action is a daydream. Action without vision is a nightmare.
(Japanese proverb, as quoted in Civilization’s Quotations : Life’s Ideal (2002) by Richard Alan Krieger, p. 280)
- Knowledge is now longer king. Instead, the application of knowledge in innovative ways is king.
by S Ramachandran
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinion. But it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after retirement pleasant:
1. Never say ‘I am aged’
There are three ages, chronological, biological and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth, the second is determined by health conditions and the third is how old you feel you are. While we don’t have control over the first we can take care of our health and with good diet, exercise and cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.
2. Health is wealth
If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance cover.
3. Money is important
Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life. Keeping good health and earning, family respect and security. Don’t spend beyond your means even for you children. You have lived for them all through and if is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse / partner. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But never take it for granted.
4. Relaxation and recreation
The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.
5. Time is precious
It is almost like holding a horses reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash, use it profitably… Live this moment…
6. Change is the only permanent thing
We should accept change. It is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.
7. Enlightened selfishness
All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and happiness. We derive by doing good to others, without expecting anything in return.
8. Forget and forgive
Don’t be bothered too much about others’ mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will only increasing our BP.
9. Everything has a purpose
Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and right in his own way.
10. Overcome the fear of death
We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will carry on.
Do not be timid and squeamish about your actions.
All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.
What if they are a little course, and you may get your coat soiled or torn? What if you do fail, and get fairly rolled in the dirt once or twice. Up again, you shall never be so afraid of a tumble.